tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1966612740543636942.post7342430084914583665..comments2023-05-03T02:54:24.176-07:00Comments on Happily Ever After: My Thoughts on ThingsSoul Mates 95http://www.blogger.com/profile/10238332537952777126noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1966612740543636942.post-84632878928536107472009-04-11T07:42:00.000-07:002009-04-11T07:42:00.000-07:00My first husband cheated. I fought it for three ye...My first husband cheated. I fought it for three years before deciding to free us <I>all</I> from the awful cycle. <BR/>Your situation is different, but here's what i learned: The affair was never about her. She was just a weapon to hurt me with, <I>even when he was trying not ot be discovered.</I> The anger was what we needed to address. We couldn't.<BR/>I am very happily merried now to a man much better suited to me, but I now know to treat love as a very fragile flower. We are careful to keep arguments clean (no insults or belittling), and to communicate immediately about any source of tension.<BR/>One last thing, which I hope does not offend you: When I was in my first marriage, I felt like divorce was the worst possible thing that could happen. It was not: i am happier now than I have ever been. I should send the other woman flowers, because without her I would not have found this perfect man, this joyous place in my life.<BR/>All good wishes in God's good name.Lori Wattshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08636118097692465116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1966612740543636942.post-63107123992054811722009-04-01T09:41:00.000-07:002009-04-01T09:41:00.000-07:00I commend you. I don't know if I could be as stron...I commend you. I don't know if I could be as strong as you are.Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13742538867410215197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1966612740543636942.post-49745441372824179262009-03-31T07:31:00.000-07:002009-03-31T07:31:00.000-07:00The ad at the top of your page covers the entrecar...The ad at the top of your page covers the entrecard dropbox, so no one can click drop... :(BunnyKissdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16496933890499858761noreply@blogger.com