Marriage Counseling
Wednesday, March 4, 2009 by Soul Mates 95
~W~
We have our next marriage counseling session tomorrow. I think I need it right now. I can't let anger outweigh my love for my husband. As long as he has been totally honest with me I know I can forgive him in time. I also know if there were any more lies it would be impossible. I think the hardest part is rebuilding trust. Without trust it is impossible to have a successful marriage. I cannot allow myself to be close to someone whom I cannot believe a word that comes out of their mouth. It will be hard to trust again. I am scared to trust and let go. It's still very fresh for me. I finally have the love and devotion I always dreamed of in a marriage and this thing hanging over our heads is trying to steal it from us. I don't want to let it happen. I know without a doubt I myself will always be faithful and honest with my husband. All I expect in return is that same respect. No more lies. No more creating stories to cover your tracks. Just the truth.
We have our next marriage counseling session tomorrow. I think I need it right now. I can't let anger outweigh my love for my husband. As long as he has been totally honest with me I know I can forgive him in time. I also know if there were any more lies it would be impossible. I think the hardest part is rebuilding trust. Without trust it is impossible to have a successful marriage. I cannot allow myself to be close to someone whom I cannot believe a word that comes out of their mouth. It will be hard to trust again. I am scared to trust and let go. It's still very fresh for me. I finally have the love and devotion I always dreamed of in a marriage and this thing hanging over our heads is trying to steal it from us. I don't want to let it happen. I know without a doubt I myself will always be faithful and honest with my husband. All I expect in return is that same respect. No more lies. No more creating stories to cover your tracks. Just the truth.
Good luck to you and your husband. May God continue to bless your marriage.
Hope that can solve your problem...honesty and trustworthy are foundation in building relationship, maybe sometimes honesty may hurt you, but lies are definitely hurt you much harder...
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I'm glad you are giving marital counseling a shot. I'm sure you will find your positive attitude in this difficult situation rewarding in the end.
Davida
Hmmmm......how do you trust someone you couldn't trust? Wow! I so hope that it all works out for you W. I have seen so many situations like this where things seem like they are getting better and then the man pulls the rug out from under the woman again. This blog really makes me hope that it isn't that way for you and your husband ..... really you and your family. I hope that counseling helps you.
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Thanks!
E-Pera
Your love for each other is remarkable; I know you'll be able to do it. Thanks to you both for sharing your journey with us. Please accept my award: http://www.soulfulscribbles.com/?p=686. :)
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